Hey Stanloona!
This is a really cool experiment!
probiotics pretty much got it spot on -- osmosis is what allows plants to absorb water from the soil because it moves water (and other substances) from a place of high concentration to low concentration. Plant roots are specially designed to allow osmosis to occur and are very permeable, allowing substances to move freely in and out of the plant. However, the water isn't really too dense for the plant to absorb. What happens when you use saltwater on plants is that the soil suddenly has a much greater salt content than the plant, so in order to even out the plant and the soil, saltwater is absorbed by the plant and freshwater is absorbed from the plant by the soil. This dehydrates the plant.
That may be a little tricky to understand, so you could imagine it like this: two friends each have a bucket of 5 cups of water. One bucket has 5 cups of fresh tap water and the other has 1 cup of salt and 4 cups of water. The friends want the water in their buckets to be more equal, so they each dip a cup into their own bucket and pour it into the other friend's bucket. The bucket that had fresh water now has more salt and less water, and the bucket that had saltwater now has less salt and more water.
In specific amounts, salt is actually necessary for plant life. They get this salt from the soil around them (the same way they get water). However, extreme amounts of salt are not healthy for the plant (just like extreme amounts of salt are not good for humans).
I agree with probiotics that you should continue with the experiment and, if you don't have one, obtain a control plant using just water. Don't give up! Although the crippling plant may seem like "bad" or "failed" results, it's actually a sign that your project is going just as planned
Don't hesitate to ask any more questions!
--Emma